Havdalah

Everything You Need for Havdalah with Kids

On Saturday night, when three stars appear in the sky, Shabbat ends. We say goodbye to Shabbat with a beautiful multisensory ceremony called havdalah (separation). In that moment, we distinguish between the time we call Shabbat and that which we consider “everyday time.”

Video
Why Havdalah Exists

A PJ Library subscriber explains why we have havdalah.

At a Glance

What is Havdalah?

Havdalah, or “separation” in Hebrew, is Shabbat’s closing ritual, when three stars appear on Saturday evening.

When is Havdalah?

Every Saturday evening, as soon as three stars appear in the sky. 

What do people do during Havdalah?

Havdalah is a multisensory experience. Families light candles, say blessings, smell spices, drink grape juice, and offer well wishes for a new week.

Downloadables

Havdalah Blessings Quick Printable
A convenient printable with all of the Havdalah blessings.
Shabbat Blessings
A simple printable with the main Shabbat blessings in English and Hebrew.
Talking Cards - Full Color
Encourage family discussions with these talking cards.
Color Your Own Talking Cards
A set of Talking Cards formatted to print in black and white.

Activities, Recipes, Audio, and More

Use the tiles to find activities, book lists, how-tos, podcast episodes, and other resources to learn about havdalah with your family.

Havdalah Music
Enjoy playlists and podcasts for kids - and grown-ups - featuring music and stories all about havdalah.
Stories
Explore books and stories all about havdalah.
Activities
Find easy unplugged activity ideas for quality family time on Shabbat.
More
Find more resources.
An illustration of people spending time together on Shabbat

Celebrations and Traditions

What is Needed for Havdalah?
This easy guide will walk readers through the supplies needed for the Havdalah ceremony.
How to Have a Basic Havdalah Ceremony
Learn the basics.
Easy Havdalah Activities
Learn about Havdalah with these easy activities.
Tips for Starting Your Own Family Shabbat Tradition
Words of encouragement (and tips) from the “Accidental Jewish Educator,” about how to start your very own Shabbat practice.
How to Celebrate Shabbat on Vacation
Here are some ways to take Shabbat with you when you’re traveling.
There are More Ways to Do Jewish Than You Can Count!
Our Get Together program helps PJ Library subscribers host meaningful Jewish gatherings with friends. You invite some people you love, we’ll provide ideas, tips, even reimbursement for your challah, candles, and grape juice if you’d like.

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