Yom Kippur

Everything You Need for Yom Kippur with Kids

Ten days after Rosh Hashanah comes Yom Kippur, a day focused entirely on apologizing for our actions over the past year. On Yom Kippur, the culmination of a season of self-reflection in the Jewish calendar, one prays for forgiveness for errors of the past year and considers how to change for the better in the coming year.

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Video
Learn about the customs of saying “sorry” during the Jewish high holidays with this child-friendly explainer video from Shaboom!

At a Glance

What is Yom Kippur?

Yom Kippur is known as the day of atonement and is considered by many to be the most important holiday in Judaism. Yom Kippur is about asking forgiveness from those we’ve wronged as well forgiving those who have wronged us. Yom Kippur means the “day of covering over.” The image is both covering over our bad actions from the previous year and planting seeds beneath the soil for good deeds in the year to come.

When is Yom Kippur?

Yom Kippur begins at sundown on Wednesday, October 1, 2025 and ends at nightfall on Thursday, October 2, 2025.Jewish holidays begin at sundown because Jewish tradition follows its own special calendar.

How long is Yom Kippur?

Yom Kippur is one day long.

What do people do on Yom Kippur?

Yom Kippur is a community experience. Millions of Jewish people are spending the day doing the same thing: fasting and attending services. The prayers for Yom Kippur talk about mistakes WE have made, because on this day everyone stands together, even when apart. All of us, young and old, make mistakes, and we all deserve a second chance.

How do you prepare for Yom Kippur?

It's traditional not to shower on Yom Kippur, so some people shower right before the fast begins. On a day when we’re thinking about cleaning ourselves on the inside, it’s nice to start clean on the outside. Since Yom Kippur is a day of fasting, it’s also customary to eat a nice, big, special meal before the holiday commences.

What should I wear on Yom Kippur?

While customs vary all over the world, many communities wear white garments on Yom Kippur. People also eschew leather shoes and accessories.

Downloadables

Family Discussion Worksheet
The Ten Days (including Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur) are a good time for having thoughtful one-on-one conversations or a sit-down talk as a whole family. You can use these prompts to guide you.
A Special Shofar Blast to Conclude Yom Kippur
Blow along with Jewish people all over the world. Make it long and loud! Blow for a sweet new year, full of love and good deeds, justice and happiness for everyone.
Next year in Jerusalem
The Yom Kippur prayers traditionally end with the expression leshanah haba’a biYerushalayim, which means “Next year in Jerusalem”!

Activities, Recipes, Audio, and More

Use the tiles to find book lists, how-tos, podcast episodes, and other resources to help children engage during Yom Kippur.

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Listen to music, podcasts, and more!
Stories
Even grown-ups have trouble saying "I'm sorry," sometimes. The picture books in this list are great teaching tools for both kids and parents.
Parenting
It’s hard to teach kids to apologize well when a lot of us never learned it ourselves. Here are some easy ways to get it right – for yourself and when modeling for your kids.
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Celebrations and Traditions

While children may be too young for some of the rituals associated with Yom Kippur, kids of all ages understand the weight of "saying sorry" and learning to do better. Here are some peeks inside Yom Kippur traditions and how to include children at various developmental milestones.

Do Children Participate on Yom Kippur?
While children may be too young for some of the rituals associated with Yom Kippur, like fasting, kids of all ages understand the weight of "saying sorry" and "doing better."
What is Teshuva?
Saying sorry, apologizing to friends for mistakes, and developing empathy for how other people feel are accessible ways for young children to practice teshuvah.
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