Do your kids ever come home recounting a lively debate or heated discussion that took place during lunch or recess? Whether they’re arguing the merits of indoor versus outdoor recess or making a case for the greatest sandwich combo (which is obviously sun butter and jelly, thank you), every time your kids have a spirited conversation with their friends —or you — they’re participating in a longstanding Jewish tradition.
It's true — debate, argument, discussion: these are all vital parts of Jewish tradition. In fact, two legendary rabbis, Hillel and Shammai, are among our history’s most famous friends who agreed to disagree.
In the story of Purim, its heroes, Mordechai and Esther, disagree with unjust rules, take a stand, and are proven right in the end. In keeping with that story, the lively and festive Purim meal, called the seudah, has traditionally incorporated an element of discussion and debate. Although grownups may spend this time deep in text study, examining the language and commentary around the Book of Esther, kids can also engage in their own version of the seudah, right at the lunch table.
You can encourage your kids to use PJ Library’s special printable Lunch Box Notes to chat with friends, or kick off a discussion with them yourself by asking the following questions inspired by the Purim story:
- When do you feel brave?
- What makes you feel brave?
- Is there ever a time to break the rules?
- What’s the best part of Purim?
- Who is your favorite character in the Purim story?
For more conversation starters, check out the flaps of your favorite PJ Library stories or some of our Family Discussion Guides.
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